5 Things Every Pregnant Teen Needs to Know
You took a test and it’s positive. But it seems unbelievable. You’re only in high school—too young to be pregnant. You’re feeling a whirlwind of emotions—confusion, fear, and uncertainty about the future. Maybe you’re even questioning who you are.
At Caring Network, we are here to support you every step of the way. And we want you to know: You are able. Here are five crucial things every pregnant teen needs to know.
1. You Are Able to Make the Right Choice
One of the first things you need to know is that you have choices. There may be people in your life who tell you that your only option is abortion. But that’s not true.
Karla (not her real name) faced a crisis when she came to Caring Network. She was determined to have an abortion, due to many challenges in her life. The compassionate team listened to Karla’s concerns, discussed her options, and planted seeds of hope for choosing life. But Karla still left feeling like she had only one choice.
However, Karla later found herself in a desperate situation after taking her first abortion pill. She turned back to Caring Network in a panic, seeking help to stop the process. With the help of a medical team, the effects of the pill were reversed, and Karla was able to save her baby’s life!
Although Karla struggled with her decision at first, she grew stronger and stronger in her resolution to choose life. Her story confirms what we know to be absolutely true: many women facing an unexpected pregnancy would choose life for their baby if they had the assurance of support and care.
Caring Network is here to provide the support, information, and resources you need. Reach out to us today, and let us walk this path with you. You are able to make the right choice.
2. You are Stronger Than You Think
As a teen, a surprise pregnancy can be absolutely scary. But remember—you are stronger than you think. Many young women before you have faced similar situations and have gone on to lead fulfilling lives, whether they chose to parent or place their child for adoption.
The Bible reminds us in Psalm 127:3-5 that: “Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him. Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are children born in one’s youth. Blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them. They will not be put to shame when they contend with their opponents in court.” There is a strength and blessing that comes with bringing life into the world, even when it’s unexpected. You are stronger than you think.
3. You are Not Alone
It is easy to feel like you are all by yourself. But you don’t have to go through this pregnancy alone. Surround yourself with a support system of people who care about you and your baby. This could be family, friends, a mentor, or a pregnancy consultant at Caring Network. Support systems can provide emotional comfort, practical help, and guidance as you work through this next chapter of life.
Data from the American Academy of Pediatrics shows that teens with strong support systems are more likely to have healthier pregnancies and better outcomes. So don’t hesitate to reach out for help—there are people who want to support you. You are not alone.
4. You are Capable of Accomplishing Your Dreams
One common fear among pregnant teens is that their education or career goals are unreachable now. While it’s true that having a child changes your life, it doesn’t mean your dreams are done. In fact, many young mothers find that their children become a source of motivation to pursue their goals with even more passion.
A study by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) found that 50% of teen mothers go on to finish high school, and many continue to further their education or start successful careers. There are numerous programs and scholarships available for young mothers who wish to continue their education. According to the National Women’s Law Center, students who are mothers have a higher graduation rate when they have access to childcare on campus. With determination and the right support, you can continue to chase your goals while providing a bright future for your child. You are capable of accomplishing your dreams.
5. You Are Full of Potential
It’s natural to feel anxious about the future when you are in your teens and expecting. But it’s important to remember that your future is still full of hope. Life may not look exactly like you planned, but it can be beautiful in ways you never imagined. The journey ahead may have its challenges, but it’s also filled with opportunities for growth, love, and incredible joy. Being pregnant does not mean you are “less than” “disappointing” or “a mess-up.” You remain a precious child of a God who believes in you. You have the potential to create a fulfilling future for both yourself and your child.
Facing an unexpected pregnancy as a teenager is a significant challenge, but it’s also an opportunity to grow, find strength you never knew you had, and discover the immense joy that can come from this new journey in your life. Remember, we are here to help.
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Where she goes first determines what will happen next.
A woman facing an unexpected pregnancy is often overwhelmed and under-resourced. She may feel alone. When she seeks help, the counsel she encounters can prepare her for abortion. Or it can equip her to choose life.
Caring Network centers are for life. We reach women with free medical information, confidential counsel, and a calm, judgment-free environment in their time of crisis. When love leads, then fear recedes. And life can grow.
Help us make a difference … two lives at a time.
